Inlaws, most people have them- no one wants them!

Ok. So I wasn't going to EVER blog about my inlaws (I thought it would cause family drama) but, hey, they are a BIG part of my life, good or BAD! 
Don't get me wrong, my husband's family can be fun, loving, blah blah blah! BUT the bad is always going to over ride the good. You know what it's like, right? Everything is going good, everyone is getting along so well and then BAM! Someone says one little thing and it's World War 3. And war time seems to last 3 times as long as peace time in this family! It seems like this one particular family member can't stand for there to be peace and harmony. She thrives on drama! (And if she read this she would NEVER think I was talking about her!) But really, when she's not around, everyone gets along and it's just I don't know peaceful, normal, just AHHHH! Sure we all don't agree all the time but oh my! She would argue and tell me that my name isn't Heather if the mood struck! And UGH! She will complain that say, her mom treats so and so better than her, yet she turns right around and does the EXACT same thing only multiply it times 5! It's like she has to over compensate for it or something! And oh, don't get me started on how she hands out advice on topics she is certainly no expert on! (Fiances, parenting, and the biggie--- MARRIAGE-- she's been married more than once!) 
 I could go on and on and on! But I think I've said enough! At least I feel the weight lifting some! And like I said though, when she is "normal" she is wonderful! But everyone has let her get by with diarrhea of the mouth for so long and her miserable attitude (at times) that now the "normal" is this hard to get along with overbearing, irritating  going to drive me insane person!